UNIT11CONFLICTANDCOMPROMISELESSON2DEALINGWITHCONFLICTLookatthedifferentwaysofdealingwith

conflict.Discusswithyourpartnerwhichwaysyouwouldusetoresolveconflict（√），andwhichyouwouldn’tuse（×）.

Activity1□torespond

toangerwithmoreanger□tonegotiatewiththeotherperson□todonothingortrytoescape□tosolvetheproblemyourself□torepeatwhatyousaidinadifferentway□toaskforhelpfromsomebodyoutsidethesituation□toexplainclearlywhatyouwant□toputforwardsolutionsListentotheprogrammeandwritedown

thequestionsthepresentercollectedfortheprofessorintheleftcolumnofthetable.Activity2聽力文本（I=Interviewer

D=Dr.Maguire）I：Goodafternoon.Todaywe’regoingtotalkaboutconflict，andhowtodealwithit.WehaveDr.Maguire，fromCityUniversitywithustoday.Goodafternoon，Dr.Maguire.D：Goodafternoon.I：Dr.Maguire，inourdailylife，wemaycomeacross

variousconflicts.Forexample，neighbourscomplainof

extremelyloudmusicuntilverylateatnightandparentsbecomereallyangrywiththeirchildrenforspendingtoomuchtimeonline.Inyouropinion，whatisthebestwaytodealwithconflict?

D：Well，therearethreecommonways.Thefirstwayistorespondtoangerwithmoreanger.Thismeansyoureactmorenegativelyandviolently

toasituationofconflict.Thisistheworstwayofhandlingconflict，becausethesituationcangetworseorevenleadtoviolence.Unfortunately，itisoneofthemostcommonwaysofreactingtoconflict.I：Mm，that’strue.D：Anotherway，whichdoesn’tworkverywell，isdoingnothing.I：Whatdoyoumean?D：Thisiswhenthepersonsaysnothingandtriestoescapeorignorethesituation.Theyjusthopethatiftheyholdoutforlongenough，thingswillgetbetterbyandby.Thisdoesnotsolveanyproblemandthepersonwhowithdraws

feelsmoreandmoreangrywiththeotherperson.Holdingyourfeelingsinsidecanbeveryunhealthy.

I：Indeed.That’sverytrue.D：Anotherpossibilityistoaskforhelpfromsomebodyoutsidethesituation.I：Whatdoyoumeanexactly?D：Well，thisiswhenyoucallon

somebodyoutsidethesituation，andtheydecidewhatshouldhappen.This

canbeuseful，especiallyiftheconflictisserious.However，peopleoutsidethesituationmaynotknowthe

wholestory.Theyareusuallynotinthepositiontomaketherightjudgement.Withoutdoubt，thebestthing

todoistotrytonegotiatewiththeotherperson.I：Right.Thankyouverymuch，Dr.Maguire.Let’shaveabreakandwe’llbebacksoon.Whatarethethreecommonways?

Whatdoeseachwaymean?

Whyisn’tithelpful?Thismeansyou

morenegatively

and

toasituationof

.Thesituationcan

orevenleadto

.Thepersonsaysnothingandtriesto

thesituation.Thisdoesnot

.Thepersonwhowithdrawsfeels

.Holdingyourfeelingsinsidecanbe

.

You

somebodyoutsidethesituation，andthey

.However，peopleoutsidethesituation

.Theyareusuallynotin

tomaketherightjudgment.

TorespondtoangerwithmoreangerDoingnothingToaskforhelpfromsomebodyoutsidethesituationreactviolentlyconflictescapeorignorecallondecidewhatshouldhappengetworseviolencesolveanyproblemmoreandmoreangrywiththeotherpersonveryunhealthymaynotknowthewholestorythepositionListenagain.CompletetherestoftheinformationinActivity2.Then，sharewithyourpartnerwhatyouhavelearntaboutthethreecommonwaystodealwithconflict. 參考答案見“活動(dòng)2”Activity3Listenagain.Answerthequestions.Whatarethetwoconflictstheinterviewermentions?WhatistheworstwayofdealingwithconflictaccordingtoDr.Maguire?3

Whatisthebestwayrecommended?

Activity4Neighbourscomplainofextremelyloudmusicuntilverylateatnightandparentsbecomereallyangrywiththeirchildrenforspendingtoomuchtimeonline.Respondtoangerwithmoreanger.Trytonegotiatewiththeotherperson.Readeachsituationandhowtheconflictsareresolved.Analysetheirpossibleconsequences.Givecommentsorrecommendationsonhowtodealwitheachsituation.a

Amydidnotdowellinhermathsexam，andhermotherwasveryangrywithherasaresult.

Amyarguedthatoneexamwouldnotmeantotalfailure，buthermotherdidnotagree.Amy’s

waytodealwiththeproblemwasrefusingtotalktohermotherforthreedays.

Activity5NottalkingtohermotherforthreedayswouldmakebothAmyandhermotherfeelveryupset.ItwouldbebetterifAmyandhermotherwenttothemathsteacheranddiscussAmy’sproblemsandfindasolution.b

Bobaccidentallystampedonaman’sfootonthebus.ThemanwasveryangryandsworeatBob.

Bobwasangry，too.Heyelledandsworebackattheman.c

DaisythoughtCathyhadreportedhertotheteacher，eventhoughCathyhadnot.Daisywasso

angrythatshewouldn’tallowCathytotellhersideofthestory.Therefore，Cathyaskedher

friendFionatotalktoDaisyonherbehalf.

Thissituationcouldhaveledontoamoreseriousargumentandeventuallygetpoliceinvolvedin.ThemancouldhavecomplainedandBobcouldhavesaidsorryrightaway.Daisy’sstubbornbehaviourcouldhaveendedherfriendshipwithCathy.DaisyshouldhavebeenmoreopentoCathy’ssideofthestory.FunctionFOCUSONFUNCTION：GIVINGSUGGESTIONSListentoDr.Maguiretalkingaboutwhatweshoulddotodealwithconflict.Completehissuggestions.Activity6聽力文本（I=Interviewer

D=Dr.Maguire）（I=Interviewer

D=Dr.Maguire）I：Welcomeback.Thankyouforstayingwithus.Justnow，Dr.Maguiresuggestedseveralthingsweshouldnotdowhendealingwithconflict.Sowhatshouldwedothen，Dr.Maguire?D：Tonegotiate，first，youshouldnotactasifyou’re100%rightandtheyare100%wrong.Next，youshouldtrytoexplainclearlywhatyouwant.Iftheotherpersonrepliesangrily，youshouldn’trespondinthesameway.Thebestthingistorepeatwhatyousaidinadifferentway，andthentrytofindoutwhattheotherpersonwants，andwhy.

I：Mm，right.WhenIfindoutwhattheotherpersonwants，whatshouldIdo?D:Then，youputforward

solutions.It’sveryimportanttomakesurethateverybodyagrees.Andif

youagreetodosomething，thenmakesureitcomesabout.I：OK.Isthereanythingelseweoughttodo?D:Well，youshouldspeakclearlyandfirmly

，butyoushouldnevershout.Also，becarefulof

yourbodylanguage.Trytorelax，andit’salwaysbetternevertostandtooclosetotheother

person.I：Thankyou，Dr.Maguire，foryourveryusefuladvice.

·First，

.·Next，

.·Then，

.·Youshould

.·Also，

. youshouldnotactasifyou’re100%rightandtheyare100%wrongyoushouldtrytoexplainclearlywhatyouwantyouputforwardsolutionsspeakclearlyandfirmly，butyoushouldnevershoutbecarefulofyourbodylanguageListenandimitate.CompletetheTalkBuilder.Activity7GivingSuggestions1

You

notactasifyou’re100%rightandtheyare100%wrong.2

You

trytoexplainclearlywhatyouwant.3

You

respondinthesameway.4

istorepeatwhatyousaidinadifferentway.5

You

speakclearlyandfirmly，butyou

shout.6

relax，and

nevertostandtooclosetotheotherperson.

SkillBuilderit’salwaysbettershouldnotshouldthebestthingshouldnevertrytoshouldshouldshouldn’tThebestthingshouldshouldneverTrytoit’salwaysbetterPairWorkThinkaboutaconflictyouhaveexperienced.Shareyourexperienceinpairsandgiveeachothersuggestions.Activity8Languagepoints核心詞匯教材原句p.34 toputforwardsolutions提出解決方案題組練·領(lǐng)悟方法1putforward提出；將……提前；將鐘撥快；推薦Healsoputforwardsomesuggestionsfortheexperimentteachingontheforum.在論壇上，他也對(duì)實(shí)驗(yàn)教學(xué)工作提出了一些建議。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］You’dbetterputyourwatchforwardbytenminutesinordernottomissthebustotheclinic.為了避免誤了去診所的公共汽車，你最好把表?yè)芸焓昼?。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Theyhaveapologisedforputtingforwardthedateoftheirweddingbyoneweek.他們已經(jīng)為把婚禮日期提前一周而道歉。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］

【歸納拓展】putaside節(jié)??；儲(chǔ)蓄；儲(chǔ)存；留出；不理睬

putaway放好；積蓄putdown記下；放下；鎮(zhèn)壓 putoff延期；推遲puton穿上；上演 putout撲滅；生產(chǎn)putup舉起；張貼；建立；提供食宿 putupwith容忍；忍受putthrough接通電話；完成；使經(jīng)受Ican’tputupwiththeirsmokinginthestadiumanylonger.我再也不能容忍他們?cè)隗w育館里吸煙了。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Believingmynovelcouldnotleavethereadersadeepimpression，Iputitaside.我認(rèn)為我的小說(shuō)不能給讀者留下深刻的印象，就把它放到了一邊。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］ 用put的相關(guān)短語(yǔ)的適當(dāng)形式填空 Thekitchencaughtfire.Tomsuggestedthattheyshouldcallfirefighterstohelp（1）

thefire.However，hismother，who（2）

ashowrecently，saidTom’splanmaybe（3）

，becausetheycouldhandletheproblembythemselves.Therefore，they（4）

theirfire-protectionsuits，（5）

awetquiltandcoveredthefire.Totheirsurprise，somefiremenappearedattheirhouse.Aneighbourcouldn’t（6）

theheavysmokeandtelephoned119. 完成句子（7）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Ithinkheisfitfortheposition；therefore，I’ll

（推薦他作為）acandidateresolutely.（8）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Overtheyearsseveralsimilartheories

（被提出）. putouthadputonputoffputonputupputupwithputhimforwardashavebeenputforward教材原句p.34

Thesituationcangetworseorevenleadtoviolence.

這種情況可能會(huì)變得更壞或者甚至導(dǎo)致暴力。2leadto導(dǎo)致，引起；通往，通向（to是介詞） Differentmethodscanleadtovariousresults.不同的方法會(huì)產(chǎn)生各種各樣的結(jié)果。AllroadsleadtoRome.（諺）條條大路通羅馬。

單句語(yǔ)法填空（1）Hisactionscouldleadtohim

（lose）hisjob.（2）Wefirmlybelievethatwarneversettlesanything.Itonlyleads

violence.（3）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Asaconsequenceofhercareless-ness，hismistakeresulted

thefailureoftheexperiment.（4）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Thefreezingroadbrought

somanytrafficaccidents.

losingtoinabout教材原句p.34Thepersonwhowithdrawsfeelsmoreandmoreangrywiththeotherperson.

退縮的那個(gè)人對(duì)另一個(gè)人感到越來(lái)越生氣。3withdraw（withdrew，withdrawn）vt.撤退；收回；撤銷；停止提供；不再給予；（從銀行）取錢；vi.撤退；離開 Thedrugwaswithdrawnfromsaleafteranumberofpeoplesufferedserioussideeffects.這藥因許多人服后產(chǎn)生嚴(yán)重副作用而被停止銷售。Governmenttroopswereforcedtowithdraw.政府部隊(duì)被迫撤走了?！驹~語(yǔ)積累】withdrawaln.收回；撤退；提款Youcanmakewithdrawalsofupto＄250aday.你一天可以從銀行賬戶中提取最多不超過(guò)250美元。

單句語(yǔ)法填空（1）Ifyouexperienceanyunusualsymptomsafter

（withdraw）ofthetreatment，contactyourdoctor.（2）His

（withdraw）fromtheelectionattractedpeople’sgreatattention.（3）Bothpowerswithdrewtheirforces

theregion.（4）Thehorsehasbeenwithdrawn

therace. withdrawalfromwithdrawalfrom教材原句p.35Youshouldspeakclearlyandfirmly...你應(yīng)該清晰堅(jiān)定地說(shuō)……4firmly

adv.堅(jiān)定地；堅(jiān)決地；堅(jiān)固地；穩(wěn)固地 Thehouseholdfirmlycarriedoutthisplanmadebythemselves.這個(gè)家庭堅(jiān)定地執(zhí)行了自己制訂的這個(gè)計(jì)劃。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］【詞語(yǔ)積累】firmn.公司adj.堅(jiān)固的；穩(wěn)固的；強(qiáng)有力的；堅(jiān)定的firmnessn.堅(jiān)固；堅(jiān)實(shí)；堅(jiān)定；堅(jiān)決Theboundbetweenhimandthecompanyissofirm.他和那家公司之間的關(guān)系是如此緊密。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Themanwhoputforwardthetheorywasamanofintelligenceandoffirmnessofwill.提出這一理論的人是一個(gè)聰明且意志堅(jiān)定的人。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］【歸納拓展】befirmabout...……的想法很堅(jiān)定standfirmagainst堅(jiān)定地反對(duì)……

Heisfirmaboutthecorrectnessofhisowntheory.他堅(jiān)信自己的理論是正確的。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Hestoodfirmagainstcarryingouttheexperimentaboutfrictioninthesmallroom.他堅(jiān)決反對(duì)在這個(gè)小房間里進(jìn)行有關(guān)摩擦力的實(shí)驗(yàn)。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］

單句語(yǔ)法填空（1）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］He

（firm）believedthatbetterserviceshouldbeprovidedbythecanteen.（2）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Hegotencouragementfromthewords：Thesecretofsuccessliesinthe

（firm）ofpurpose.（3）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Heisfirm

thefunctionofthenetwork.（4）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Westandfirm

theinterventionfromabroad.完成句子（5）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Afterhearinghiswords，shelookedathimindespairandlefthisofficewith

（堅(jiān)定的步伐）.（6）［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Thepersonwith

（堅(jiān)定的信念）divedintotheriverandsavedthedrowningchild. firmlyaboutfirmnessagainstfirmsteps

firmfaith教材原句p.35 DaisythoughtCathyhadreportedhertotheteacher，eventhoughCathyhadnot.黛西認(rèn)為凱茜已經(jīng)向老師舉報(bào)了她，盡管凱茜沒有。

1eventhough引導(dǎo)的讓步狀語(yǔ)從句eventhough（=evenif）意為“雖然，即使”，引導(dǎo)讓步狀語(yǔ)從句。Eventhoughyoulostthematcheventually，youshouldn’tloseheart.雖然你最后輸了比賽，但也不該灰心?！菊`區(qū)警示】在含有eventhough，evenif引導(dǎo)的讓步狀語(yǔ)從句的復(fù)合句中，如果主句用一般將來(lái)時(shí)，從句則用一般現(xiàn)在時(shí)表將來(lái)。Eventhoughitsnowstomorrow，wewillgoonwiththeroadworks.即使明天下雪，我們也要繼續(xù)進(jìn)行道路施工。【比較】asthough（=asif）“好像，仿佛”，引導(dǎo)表語(yǔ)從句或方式狀語(yǔ)從句。當(dāng)說(shuō)話人認(rèn)為所說(shuō)的情況是事實(shí)時(shí)，用陳述語(yǔ)氣；當(dāng)說(shuō)話人認(rèn)為所說(shuō)的情況可能不是事實(shí)時(shí)，則用虛擬語(yǔ)氣。重點(diǎn)句式完成句子（1）

（盡管）theforestparkisfaraway，alotoftouristsvisititeveryyear.（2）Allowchildrenthespacetovoicetheiropinions，

（即使）theyaredifferentfromyourown.（3）TheforeignertalksaboutChineseculture

（好像）heweremorefamiliarwithitthanhisown.單句語(yǔ)法填空（4）Icanrememberourweddingasifit

（be）yesterday. Eventhough/ifevenif/thoughasif/thoughwere教材原句p.35Daisywassoangrythatshewouldn’tallowCathytotellhersideofthestory.

黛西非常生氣，她不讓凱茜說(shuō)出她的說(shuō)法。

2so...that...so...that...意為“如此……以至于……”，that引導(dǎo)結(jié)果狀語(yǔ)從句。Theconflictwassoseriousthatitwashardtoremovethedisagreementsbetweenthem.沖突如此嚴(yán)重，很難消除他們之間的分歧。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］Hishandwritingissorandomthatitisdifficultfortheteachertotell.他的筆跡很隨意，老師很難分辨。［詞匯復(fù)現(xiàn)］【歸納拓展】（1）so...that...句型的常見形式：so+adj./adv.+that...so+adj.+a（n）+n.（可數(shù)名詞單數(shù)）+that...so+many/few+n.（可數(shù)名詞復(fù)數(shù)）+that...so+much/little（少）+n.（不可數(shù)名詞）+that... （2）such...that...也可表示“如此……以至于……”，基本結(jié)構(gòu)：such+a（n）+adj.+n.（可數(shù)名詞單數(shù)）+that...such+adj.+n.（不可數(shù)名詞/可數(shù)名詞復(fù)數(shù)）+that...Hewassoresponsibleateacherthatheleft